Single is Better

Sudah pasti ada kelebihan dan kekurangan sekiranya anda memilih kehidupan untuk single. Artikel kali ini kami akan menyatakan mengenai kelebihan sekiranya anda single dan Ia terpulang pada diri anda untuk memilih antara salah satu yang dirasakan sesuai. Antara kelebihan utama sekiranya anda single adalah..

Kewangan
Dari segi soal kewangan, sudah pasti kehidupan single adalah lebih menjimatkan. Ini kerana anda hanya perlu memperuntukkan wang hanya untuk diri anda sahaja. Apabila anda memilih untuk berpasangan, pasti akan lebih banyak wang yang perlu dibelanjakan.

Kawan 
Apabila anda single, anda sebenarnya bebas dalam untuk berkawan. Ini kerana tiada mana-mana perasaan lain yang akan cemburu sekiranya anda berkawan terutamanya apabila berlainan jantina. Ia pasti akan berbeza sekiranya anda sudah mempunyai pasangan. Pasti pergaulan anda akan sedikit terbatas.

Bebas untuk melakukan apa yang anda mahu 
Pasti didalam kehidupan banyak perkara yang anda ingin lakukan. Untuk memudahkan anda melakukan apa sahaja yang anda mahu, memilih kehidupan yang single adalah lebih baik. Ia kerana anda tidak perlu untuk menjaga perasaan pasangan dan hanya fokus untuk lakukan apa yang anda inginkan.

Tidak banyak masalah 
Menjaga dua hati yang berlainan pasti akan lebih sukar berbanding menjaga satu hati. Pasti akan wujud pelbagai masalah yang akan merunsingkan anda. Dengan memilih kehidupan yang single, sudah pasti masalah akan berkurangan kerana anda hanya perlu memikirkan mengenai diri anda sahaja.

Kurang tanggungjawab 
Apabila anda sudah ada pasangan, pasti tanggungjawab anda juga akan semakin bertambah. Tanggungjawab adalah lebih berat sekiranya anda adalah seorang lelaki, yang wajib untuk melindungi pasangan anda, dari segi soal keselamatan mahupun keselesaan kehidupan mereka.

Artikel ini hanya untuk pasangan couple bukannya dah berkahwin XD

credit to: http://penpatah.blogspot.com

FUNNY College QuoteS

"College is the best time of your life. When else are your parents going to spend several thousand dollars a year just for you to go to a strange town and get drunk every night?" — David Wood

"A telephone survey says that 51 percent of college students drink until they pass out at least once a month. The other 49 percent didn't answer the phone." — Craig Kilborn

"Colleges are places where pebbles are polished and diamonds are dimmed." — R.S. Ingersoll

"Americans are the only people in the world known to me whose status anxiety prompts them to advertise their college and university affiliations in the rear window of their automobiles." — Paul Fussell

"I believe that we parents must encourage our children to become educated, so they can get into a good college that we cannot afford." — Dave Barry

"The perfect going-away gift for a college student-athlete. A dictionary." — Dave Anderson

"Everyone has a right to a university degree in America, even if it's in Hamburger Technology." — Clive James

"A man who has never gone to school may steal from a freight car, but if he has a university education he may steal the whole railroad." — Franklin Delano Roosevelt

"To those of you who received honors, awards and distinctions, I say well done. And to the C students, I say you too may one day be president of the United States." — George W. Bush

"Fathers send their sons to college either because they went to college or because they didn't." — L. L. Henderson

"Colleges typically did not tell you that ninety percent of your education came after you hung the parchment on the wall. People might ask for a rebate." — Tom Clancy

"College is a refuge from hasty judgment." — Robert Frost

Credit to: http://www.grinningplanet.com

Our BALANCE SHEET of Life

Our Birth is our Opening Balance

Our Death is our Closing Balance

Our Prejudiced Views are our Liabilities

Our Creative Ideas are our Assets

Heart is our Current Asset

Soul is our Fixed Asset

Brain is our Fixed Deposit

Thinking is our Current Account

Achievements are our Capital

Character & Morals, our Stock-in-Trade

Friends are our General Reserves

Values & Behaviour are our Goodwill

Patience is our Interest Earned

Love is our Dividend

Children are our Bonus Issues

Education is Brands / Patents

Knowledge is our Investment

Experience is our Premium Account

The Aim is to Tally the Balance Sheet of life Accurately.

The Goal is to get the Best Presented Accounts Award.

11 Alternative Definition of an ACCOUNTANT

Displays deviant behaviour when it comes to numbers.

Can do tricky sums.

Experiences an inner peace in the knowledge thatdebits should always equal credits.

Knows the inner thrill of viewing a well structured chart of accounts.

Gasps at the majestic splendour of a trial balance.

Marvels at non-accounting colleagues who guiltlessly work from home or leave early on a friday.

Always seems to miss a trick when it comes to claiming expenses or receiving above-inflation pay rises.

Has made a lifetime vow never to take a holiday at month end.

Spends more evenings with the office cleaner than with their partner.

Sorts out all the mess.

Reports to anybody who may be interested on where it all went so horribly wrong.

Tak Sabar nak jadi STUDENT semula

Dunia SUDENT!!!! Corak kehidupan yang amat kurindui… everyday dating ngn buku, artikel, nota, assignment, discussion, presentation, jmp lecturer and bla bla bla...

Xsabar rasanya nak jadi student semula. Semoga cita-cita dan azam aku nak sambung study lagi tahun ni di makbulkan dan diperkenankan oleh ALLAH YANG MAHA BERKUASA.

Walaupun kali ni aku  sambung bukan lagi di UniSZA… Universiti yg amat kurindui, yg penting aku dapat kembali ke dunia  MENUNTUT ILMU. Rinduuunyeee nak menyelami lautan ilmu yang amat luas lagi tak berpenghujung. 

Kepingan PUZZLE dalam Kehidupan

Andai kehidupan ini ibarat sebuah puzzle, ini tidak bermakna “dia” adalah satu daripada kepingan puzzle yang akan melengkapkan hidup kita menjadi sebuah puzzle yang sempurna.

“dia” mungkin hanyalah sekeping cebisan puzzle daripada set puzzle yang lain, yang mana kehadirannya  hanya lah sekadar  sebagai penyibuk dan amat menyerabutkan. Bahkan melambatkan proses hidup kita dalam membina sebuah puzzle yg lengkap dan sempurna, kerana “dia” membuatkan kita keliru dalam emosi dan perasaan

Walaupun mungkin “dia” kelihatan amat cantik, menarik, menawan dan sempurna. Lalu kite cuba sedaya upaya untuk menyelitkan dia agar menjadi salah satu cebisan yang wujud dalam puzzle kehidupan kita.

Namun hakikatnya, tempat “dia” bukanlah di SINI. Walaupun “dia” nmpk baik, cantik  dan menawan namun kehadirannya tetap tidak mampu melengkapi hidup kita bahkan wujudnya nmpk agak mencacatkan.

Kite mungkin pernah mendengar org kata “tanpamu hidupku tak sempurna”

Betol ke? Atau ia sekadar mainan perasaan. Cuba kite flashback semula rentetan hidup ini sejak kite belom lagi mengenali “dia”. Bayangkan kite langsung tidak pernah mengenalinya

Dalam sesetengah keadaan, tanpanya mungkin hidup kita akan menjadi lebih baik, lebih Berjaya dan lebih cemerlang.

Maka, wajarkah kita menyesali sebuah pertemuan, membenci sebuah perhubungan ataupun persahabatan lalu ingin memlontar  potret kenangan yang pernah kita lukiskan bersama – sama “dia” ???

Setiap yang berlaku tetap berlaku dan tiada apa yang mampu mengubah sejarah yang pernah tercipta antara kita dan “dia”

Apa yang mampu kita lakukan hanyalah mengambil pengajaran dari setiap peristiwa yang sudah berlaku. Yang baik dijadikan tauladan dan yg buruk dijadikan sempadan serta kawallah perasaan agar diri tidak terbuai oleh emosi.

Apa yg sangat2 kita sukai atau ingini mungkin bukanlah sesuatu yg terbaik untuk kita. Maka berfikirlah secara rasional dan jangan melupakan “ALLAH” dalam apa jua yg keadaan

Berhenti berharap

Dulu time aku frust menonggeng dgn sorang MAKHLUK ni, aku suka sgt layan lagu ni sambil m’hayati lirik dia dalam dalam. Seolah2 aku yang nyanyikan lagu ni sambil mengharap dia mengerti bahawa aku betol2 frust dgn ape yg da tjadi antara kitorg.

Saat itu, dlm hati aku hanya ade dia, dia dan dia sahaja seolah2 aku tak mungkin akan menyintai org lain. aku hanya harap dia akan menyesali perbuatannya dan kembali semula kepada aku...

Tapi ape yg aku dapat? Tak ade ape pun yg aku dapat. Si dia mungkin da bahagia dgn org baru. Tgglkan aku, buat BODOH macam la aku ni manusia yg xde perasaan.  Sedeyyyyy sioooooot.  

Sebenarnya, kalo kite frust menonggeng, kite xsepatutnya melayan perasaan cam tu. Kite mesti cekalkan hati. Tabahkan jiwa. Mantapkan perasaan!!!

Sebenarnya aku tak rugi kerana kehilangan org yg tidak mnyintaiku sepenuh hati. Tetapi dialah yg rugi sbb BANGANG sgt tgglkan aku yg sgt mnyintainya dan pegi kejar org yg tak pasti lagi SUHU cintanya setinggi mana...

Yang berlaku itu pasti ade hikmah. Atleast ia memberi peluang kpd aku untuk menemui insan lain yang lebih menyintai aku, rather than STAY  ngn manusia KEPARAT plus HAMPEH cam dia tu kan hahhahahahha...

 Aku tak percaya lagi ...Dengan apa yang kau beri

Aku terdampar disini...Tersudut menunggu mati

Aku tak percaya lagi...Akan guna matahari

Yang dulu mampu terangi...Sudut gelap hati ini

Aku berhenti berharap...Dan menunggu datang gelap

Sampai nanti suatu saat...Tak ada cinta kudapat

Kenapa ada derita...Bila bahagia tercipta

Kenapa ada sang hitam...Bila putih menyenangkan

Aku pulang…Tanpa dendam...Ku terima kekalahanku

Aku pulang…Tanpa dendam...Ku salutkan kemenanganmu

Kau ajarkan aku bahagia...Kau ajarkan aku derita

Kau tunjukan aku bahagia...Kau tunjukan aku derita

Kau berikan aku bahagia...Kau berikan aku derita

Aku pulang…Tanpa dendam... Ku terima kekalahanku

Rebahkan tangguhmu...Lepaskan perlahan

Kau akan mengerti...Semua…

Kahlil Gibran

"...pabila cinta memanggilmu... ikutilah dia walau jalannya berliku-liku... Dan, pabila sayapnya merangkummu... pasrahlah serta menyerah, walau pedang tersembunyi di sela sayap itu melukaimu..." (Kahlil Gibran)

"...kuhancurkan tulang-tulangku, tetapi aku tidak membuangnya sampai aku mendengar suara cinta memanggilku dan melihat jiwaku siap untuk berpetualang" (Kahlil Gibran)

"Tubuh mempunyai keinginan yang tidak kita ketahui. Mereka dipisahkan karena alasan duniawi dan dipisahkan di ujung bumi. Namun jiwa tetap ada di tangan cinta... terus hidup... sampai kematian datang dan menyeret mereka kepada Tuhan..." (Kahlil Gibran)

"Jangan menangis, Kekasihku... Janganlah menangis dan berbahagialah, karena kita diikat bersama dalam cinta. Hanya dengan cinta yang indah... kita dapat bertahan terhadap derita kemiskinan, pahitnya kesedihan, dan duka perpisahan" (Kahlil Gibran)

"Aku ingin mencintaimu dengan sederhana... seperti kata yang tak sempat diucapkan kayu kepada api yang menjadikannya abu... Aku ingin mencintaimu dengan sederhana... seperti isyarat yang tak sempat dikirimkan awan kepada hujan yang menjadikannya tiada..." (Kahlil Gibran)

"Jika cinta tidak dapat mengembalikan engkau kepadaku dalam kehidupan ini... pastilah cinta akan menyatukan kita dalam kehidupan yang akan datang" (Kahlil Gibran)

"Apa yang telah kucintai laksana seorang anak kini tak henti-hentinya aku mencintai... Dan, apa yang kucintai kini... akan kucintai sampai akhir hidupku, karena cinta ialah semua yang dapat kucapai... dan tak ada yang akan mencabut diriku dari padanya" (Kahlil Gibran)

"Kemarin aku sendirian di dunia ini, kekasih; dan kesendirianku... sebengis kematian... Kemarin diriku adalah sepatah kata yang tak bersuara..., di dalam pikiran malam. Hari ini... aku menjelma menjadi sebuah nyanyian menyenangkan di atas lidah hari. Dan, ini berlangsung dalam semenit dari sang waktu yang melahirkan sekilasan pandang, sepatah kata, sebuah desakan dan... sekecup ciuman" (Kahlil Gibran)

"Forgotten Friend" by David J Gossett

One thing to ask,

full of fear.

One thing to say,

I hope you hear.

How can you have feelings for me?

But then not even care.

Am i just a bad memory?

Were you just looking for a soul to tear?

I told you you would be safe with me.

That you shouldn't have to fear.

But you drifted into darkness.

You just refused to hear.

If you dont reply to this,

We will never speak again.

But it looks like thats how you want it.

From: Your Forgotten Friend

Credit to http://www.poemslovers.com

"My BestFriend" by EMMA

You made me laugh when I cried so hard

You gave me bracelets to cover my scars

You held me close when I was so cold

You offered a comforting hand to hold

You picked me up whenever I fell

You showed me heaven when I was blinded by hell

You answered my calls in the darkened night

You gave me the reasons to hold on and fight

You rescued me when I was drowning in pain

You placed me back on the right path again

You loved me forever and stayed by my side

You entered my heart as an angel to guide

You may not be with me so much anymore

But I know you will leave open a beckoning door

I miss you so much but I'll fight till the end

I love you so much my Bestest friend.

Credit to http://www.poemslovers.com

QuotationS - Happiness

o         Nothing is so bitter that a calm mind cannot find comfort in it.Seneca 

Such as are your habitual thoughts, such also will be the character of your mind; for the soul is dyed by the thoughts.Aurelius, Marcus 

It has long been an axiom of mine that the little things are infinitely the more important.Doyle, Sir Arthur Conan 

Freedom is nothing else but a chance to be better.Camus, Albert 

Live all you can; it's a mistake not to. It doesn't so much matter what you do in particular, so long as you have your life. If you haven't had that what have you?James, Henry 

There are two ways of spreading light; to be the candle or the mirror that reflects it.Wharton, Edith 

What we do today, right now, will have an accumulated effect on all our tomorrows.Stoddard, Alexandra

If the doors of perception were cleansed everything would appear to man as it is, infinite.Blake, William 

The only joy in the world is to begin.Pavese, Cesare 

Celebrate the happiness that friends are always giving, make every day a holiday and celebrate just living.Bradley, Amanda 

The soul should always stand ajar, ready to welcome the ecstatic experience.Dickinson, Emily 

It is eternity now. I am in the midst of it. It is about me and the sunshine.Jefferies, Richard 

If my heart can become pure and simple like that of a child, I think there probably can be 
no greater happiness than this.Nishida, Kitaro 

If you take a flower in your hand and really look at it, it's your world for the momentO'Keefe, Georgia 

The reason angels can fly is that they take themselves so lightly.Chesterton G. K. 

Slow down and enjoy life. It's not only the scenery you miss by going too fast-you also miss the sense of where you are going and why.Cantor, Eddie 

Man is not free to refuse to do the thing which gives him more pleasure than any other conceivable action.Stendhal 

Everyone is unique. Compare not yourself with anyone else lest you spoil God's curriculum.Tov, Baal Shem 

It is one of the beautiful compensations of life that no man can sincerely try to help another without helping himself.Emerson, Ralph Waldo 

Give light, and the darkness will disappear of itself.Erasmus 

You can't change the past, and you can ruin a perfectly good present, by worrying about the future. 
Anonymous 

I want to sing like the birds sing not worrying about who hears or what they think.Rumi 

I must govern the clock, not be governed by it.Meir, Golda 

The quieter you become the more you can hear.Dass, Baba Ram 

There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so.Shakespeare, William 

Rest is not idleness, and to lie sometimes on the grass under trees on a summer's day, listening to the murmur of the water, or watching the clouds float across the sky, is by no means a waste of time.Lubbock, Sir J. 

True silence is the rest of the mind; it is to the spirit what sleep is to the body, nourishment and refreshment.Penn, William 

The sorrow which has no vent in tears may make other organs weep.Maudsley, Henry

All my life I have tried to pluck a thistle and plant a flower wherever the flower would grow in thought and mind.Lincoln, Abraham 

Life is playfulness... we need to play so that we can rediscover the magical around us.Colao, Flora 

More important than talent, strength, or knowledge is 
the ability to laugh at yourself and enjoy the pursuit of your dreams.Grant, Amy 

When you delight in the game, the effort seems unimportant.Anonymous 

When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth 
you are weeping for that which has been your delight.Gibran, Kahlil 

To see a world in a grain of sand and heaven in a wild flower, 
Hold infinity in the palm of your hand and eternity in an hour.Blake, William

A man who as a physical being is always turned toward the outside, thinking that his happiness lies outside him, finally turns inward and discovers that the source is within him.Kierkegaard, Soren 

The way I see it, if you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain.Parton, Dolly 

We learn the inner secret of happiness when we learn to direct our inner drives, our interest and our attention to something outside ourselves.Andrus, Ethel Perry 

Happiness is like jam. You can't spread even a little without getting some on yourself.Anonymous 

Only when one is connected to one's inner core is one connected to others. And, for me, the core, the inner spring, can best be re-found through solitude.Lindbergh, Anne Morrow 

People deal too much with the negative, what is wrong.... Why not try and see positive things,
to just touch those things and make them bloom. 
Hanh, Thich Nhat 

There are those who give with joy, and that joy is their reward.Gibran, Kahlil 

Oftentimes in denying yourself pleasure you do but store the desire in the recesses of your being.Gibran, Kahlil 

Happiness is not a station you arrive at, but a matter of traveling. 
Runbeck, Margaret 

The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance, the wise man grows it under his feet.Openhelm, James 

Laughter is the shortest distance between two peopleBorge, Victor 
Happiness is not a goal; it is a by-product.
Roosvelt, Eleanor 
Happiness sneaks through a door you didn't know that you left open.Barrymore, John 

The best remedy for anger is delay.Young , Brigham 

One is never more on trial than in the moment of excessive good fortune. 
Lew Wallace

If you take care of the small things, the big things take care of themselves. You can gain more control over your life by paying closer attention to the little things.Dickinson, Emily 

One cannot collect all the beautiful shells on the beach. 
Anne Morrow Lindbergh

Beauty, more than bitterness Makes the heart break. 
Sara Teasdale

It is not easy to find happiness in ourselves, and it is not possible to find it elsewhere. 
Agnes Repplier

Every man has a rainy corner of his life whence comes foul weather which follows him. 
Jean Paul Richter

We are never so happy or unhappy as we think. 
Francois duc la Rochefoucauld

Not all those who know their minds know their hearts as well. 
Francois duc la Rochefoucauld

Humor is, I think, the subtlest and chanciest of literary forms. It is surely not accidental that there are a thousand novelists, essayists, poets or journalists for each humorist. It is a long, long time between James Thurbers 
Leo Rosten

Humor is the affectionate communication of insight. 
Leo Rosten

Make the most of yourself that is all there is to youEmerson, Ralph Waldo 

How we spend our days is of course how we spend our lives. 
Dillard, Anne 

To be at peace with ourselves we need to know ourselvesMatthews, Caitlin 

If there is to be any peace it will come through being, not having.Miller, Henry

The greater part of happiness or misery depends on our dispositions, not our circumstances.Martha Washington 

"I have sometimes been wildly, despairingly, acutely miserable ... but through it all I still know quite certainly that just to be alive is a grand thing."Agatha Christie

Be intent upon the perfection of the present day.Law, William 

Friendship improves happiness, and abates misery, by doubling our joys, and dividing our grief.Addison, Joseph 

Cheerfulness keeps up a kind of daylight in the mind, and fills it with a steady and perpetual serenity.Addison, Joseph 

Remember this very little is needed to make a happy life.Aurelius, Marcus 

Think highly of yourself because the world takes you at your own estimate.Anonymous

Anger blows out the lamp of the mind.Ingersoll, Robert

My riches consist not in the extent of my possessions, but in the fewness of my wants. 
J. Brotherton 

A smile is curve that sets everything straight.Anonymous 

The future you shall know when it has come; before then forget itAeschylus 

Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional.Anonymous 

Three grand essentials to happiness in this life are something to do, something to love, and something to hope for. 
Addison

"If the only prayer you said in your whole life was, 'thank you,' that would suffice."Meister Eckhart

Life is not a matter of milestones, but of moments.Rose Kennedy

You grow up the day you have your first real laugh at yourself.Barrymore, Ethel 

"As long as you live, keep learning how to live."Seneca

"Find ecstasy in life; the mere sense of living is joy enough."Emily Dickenson

"All of the animals except man know that the principal business of life is to enjoy it."Anonymous 

"One of the lessons of history is that nothing is often a good thing to do and always a clever thing to say."Will Durant

"Who says the eternal being does not exist? Who says the sun has gone out? Someone who climbs up on the roof and closes his eyes tight, and says, I don't see anything."Rumi 

Home is not where you live but where they understand you.Morgenstern, Christion 

Happiness is the harvest of a quiet eye.O'Malley, Austin

If its sanity you are after there is no recipe like laughter.Elliot, Henry 

The human race has one really effective weapon and that is laughter.Twain, Mark 

The really happy person is the one who can enjoy the scenery while on a detour.Anonymous 

Life is too important to take seriously.Wilde, Oscar 

There is only one blasphemy, and that is the refusal to experience joy.Rudnick, Paul 

The greatest compliment that was ever paid me was when someone asked me what I thought , 
and attended to my answer.Thoreau, Henry David 

Most folks are about as happy as they make their minds up to beLincoln, Abraham